Kinky Wife, Kinky Life

 

 

“I’m kinky.” These are the two words that most married men yearn to hear, either on their wedding night or much later on in their marriage. While it may first be met with excitement, it might end with divorce if one isn’t careful. 

 

You need to make sure you know what your wife’s definition of kinky is. If she’s announcing that she’s kinky, she is looking to be satiated on a very unique level. What this means for you is that you’re about to get a lesson in how to lead a kinkier life than what you’re living right now. 

 

When you have a kinky wife, a kinky life is inevitable. Your goal is to set boundaries and ensure that the level of kink is comfortable for both of you. 

 

What is her definition of kinky?

 

The idea of being kinky varies for everyone. She may want the occasional spanking and use of fuzzy handcuffs. Then again, she could be looking to get a subscription to an online swinger’s community and weekend trips to the local BDSM dungeon. 

 

Whatever it is that she wants, you want to give her…but within reason. Are you comfortable with her level of kink? Often, kink is a slippery slope of want. She may be okay with basic BDSM play now but she may want to be dominated in a scene at the dungeon or collared by a Dom down the road. This is why it’s critical to focus on boundaries so she also knows what you are and aren’t okay with. 

 

Giving into Her Kinks

 

Threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes are a common kink. Even if you have never discussed it with your wife before, it’s probably at least a kink she has thought of. When you have a kinky wife, it’s worth discussing the idea of group sex to find out where her thoughts lie on the subject. 

 

From sex clubs to house parties, there are many ways to participate in a safe orgy. Bustle has offered some tips on group sex to help you figure out what you should and shouldn’t do. Particularly if you’re planning on going to a party as a couple, rules and boundaries are a must. For example, are you going to let her go off and play or do you want to be included in every component? 

 

It ultimately comes down to communication between the two of you. Give into one of her kinks and then let her reciprocate by giving into one of yours. If you’re not sure if you have any kinks, try out a few different ones to see if there are any that turn you on. 

 

It can be a fun (and kinky) life if you learn how to play with your kinky wife in a way that turns her on over and over again.